Something like "I am OK with your decision to leave and actually, with you out the way, I can be the best mother possible to this child. I am looking forward to bringing her up and perhaps growing our family one day with someone special who wants to be with us. I get it now that you love OW - go off and be with her. I see now you are right for each other". Would that be it?
I mean, I actually don't think I really beleive the above...part of me thinks it's partly a crock of sh!t. Am I the one with the acceptance problem?
I HAVE NEVER said "I want you and OW to be happy" and I refuse to because it is a lie! I did say back in March 09 when I "set him free" physically, (WARNING- offensive language here...but I was 8months pregnant and it was the last and only time I went OFF on my stbxh and was unleashed! I never posted it in my thread--and it is only what I remember saying because I was in a rage, throwing things, banging the table and crying....) "fine. I will not force you or talk you into being with me. Obviously you want her. So go ahead--go after your F-ing DREAM GIRL SOULMATE TRUE LOVE! You can have as much f-ing sex with her and be stupid enough to believe all of her f-ing fake orgasms and you can become wrapped up in her drama! I hope it feels so f-ing good to f her p--y and it's worth it to leave YOUR PREGNANT WIFE that you promised to love and cherish for the rest of your life! And you are choosing P--Y over your son!!! You (*&^%$##^*()@!@#$^ !!"
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
