seeking answers: I am 53, he is 47. The reasons I think he is in MLC is because of the "I love you, but not IN love with you" speech, says he hasn't been happy for many years, says I'm controlling him, that everyone is controlling him, absolute opposite personality change, one day he says this, the next day he says the total opposite. Can't remember things he's said and done, in a fog. Says he has taken care of eveyone else and now it's time to make himself happy. That's all he wants is to be happy..but says he isn't sure what that means. Started an exercise/diet program (and looks darn good,I might add). The deaths of his close family members..4 of them in 5 years. Job he hates. Very bitter and angry, about life in general. Says he wasted the last 20 years of his life. Wants more kids. Those are just some of the things off the top of my head.
