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Good lord . . . someone cue the "Deliverance" theme!!!



Yep, "Deliverance" family values. Now, squeel like a pig!

This is so danged wrong you are going to need a professional to talk to your daughter.

Do you go to Church at all? Is there a minister you can tell about this and have counsel your daughter (assuming funds are tight?).

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Originally Posted By: CPCajun
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails


I'm lost. This is your wife and your 14 year old daughter talking like this??? confused

Good lord . . . someone cue the "Deliverance" theme!!!

Puppy
Yes..This hurts almost more than the EA/PA itself. I think when I confront W, WE would need to talk to D about this. I will let W explain that this was wrong and actions like this are not right.


I would suggest a good family therapist.

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Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
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Good lord . . . someone cue the "Deliverance" theme!!!



Yep, "Deliverance" family values. Now, squeel like a pig!

This is so danged wrong you are going to need a professional to talk to your daughter.

Do you go to Church at all? Is there a minister you can tell about this and have counsel your daughter (assuming funds are tight?).


AGREE.

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No, no church. I fell out of the Catholic faith a while ago. I am sorry, if the Pope can turn his head on the sex abuse and the priest. I cannot follow it.

As for faith itself. Yes, I beleive in God and pray. I no its not right, but I am angry at him now. I know he let this happen for a reason. I hope the D was to shock me into becomming a better father and husband. ...and It has awaken me. Its the infidelity, I didn't need and am angry about.

I have my IC. I will probably have to get D to go to one or a therpist. She is my step daughter from W first marriage. Her EX cheated on her, and later moved on and found me.

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I was reading on OM FB page. I don't think it worked out between each other. I am going to omit names for now.

OM- well another uneventful stand by ! lol yeah I know sicko ! was good show ! but missed my angel!Sunday at 11:22pm As In, he is on standby if she comes back to him?

OM- doin stand by at springhill baptist church !Sunday at 5:29pm Same..but what a good Baptist boy mad

OM- one day !Sunday at 7:50am As in it did't work out?

OM- took night off..... home unpacking any vollies ? lol to help ? yeah rightJune 26 at 5:37pm I f'n hate you. Unpacking as in you stayed the night with W?


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She defitely knows something up, she still calling and leaving VMS. "W is angry now that we discussed that we talk and now you ignoring me." I still don't want to talk, but I don't want her to know something is up. She is aware something has happening.

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Sorry, I'm lost. confused crazy

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Originally Posted By: CPCajun
She defitely knows something up, she still calling and leaving VMS. "W is angry now that we discussed that we talk and now you ignoring me." I still don't want to talk, but I don't want her to know something is up. She is aware something has happening.

Doesn't it feel good to get under her skin for a change? Keep ignoring her.

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She defitely knows something up, she still calling and leaving VMS. "W is angry now that we discussed that we talk and now you ignoring me." I still don't want to talk, but I don't want her to know something is up. She is aware something has happening.

Doesn't it feel good to get under her skin for a change? Keep ignoring her.
I did. She finally call the main office line and one of the girls patched her thru. She started saying how I ignored her. I told her I was busy at work and stayed vague. She has not called back.


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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Sorry, I'm lost. confused crazy

Puppy
Where...Sorry I just cant think straight.


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