I totally agree with Ken AND with you, Gr8--you said that

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told them I honestly don't know at this point. I have seen absolutely no changes in her. She still does not communicate well and I have been looking at her actions.

I really think W will regret her decision sometime soon and I feel sorry for her.
I don't think she has the courage or strength to approach me and admit she made a mistake.


The way your W is being right now, you don't want her. SO proceed as usual. Hey, if something HUGE happens, and she changes, then who knows, right? But since you don't have a crystal ball, it's good to go ahead with your plan.

I do want to say that it IS possible she could change because YOU did, right? BUt, seriously, she would need to change for you to want to work things out, correct?


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004