Just found out she already filed

[newmama]

Let me know when you can pick those up and I'll see if that works for me.

lol! yep, sounds good.

I would also prefer that whatever it is you want you come and get it once and not email me every other day asking for something new.

Thanks

I was tempted to advise changing the wording on this (Gardener is good at that!) but can't come up with anything. Timeheals says he doesn't get why we still walk on eggshells after a divorce...but my only hesitation is that this sounds like it is provoking an argument.

Maybe just this:

I would also prefer that you wait until you know everything that you want and send it in one email, then come and get it once

something like that?