Movin' On...

[newmama]

BobbiJ, good job not responding! There is nothing you can say to him--honestly. He will find a way to twist it around on you.

I agree that he is being a bully. He does need to have his own set of supplies though- my stbxh does and I bet most other divorced parents do too!

And the drop off/pick up times--heck yeah he needs to let you know if he can't make it at the time you agreed on!

So 4 things you need to discuss pronto.
1)agree on pick up drop off times. If something comes up, you must notify the other parent so they are aware.

2)Dan should have his own supplies on hand. Now that he wants to be divorced, it means you only parent the kids when they are with you. He has to do it when he is with them. Unless something comes up with issues that require both of you to be on the same page (behavior problems, dirty pictures in the camera that kids might see)

3)Texting needs to only be about the visitation schedule, medical issues with the kids. (well you can decide the parameters)

4)he needs to be aware that his sex stuff could accidentally be discovered by the kids.

So maybe your C, who is AWESOME!!! will have some good suggestions as well!