....but i also want to know why gucci doesn't think he left me for his parents. i have been told that i'm not looking in the right place for answers. i just need some guidance.
Well for one thing, he got into a relationship with you, he got married to you so apparently he didn't need his mother at that point.
I know you keep pointing the finger at her but let's be real, he can't marry her, he's not going to be intimate with her, she provided him with affection and attention and listened to him maybe when you didn't or wouldn't? It's hard to say, I've read your situation, I don't see a whole lot of where you say you went wrong, I'm not saying this is all of your fault but you must have done something to totally turn him off, this kind of relationship has two people in it, both have a dual responsibility in it, from your own words he's very angry at you, why? Even when you told him that divorce was going to cost a lot of money to him, you told us he said it was a small price to pay to get you out of his life or something to that effect, those are strong words, why does anyone want someone out of their life that much?! Those are answers you have to provide.
You say there is no affair at his end, no OW. How about you? Did you have an affair? Or maybe a male friend that you hung out with or were close to that he didn't approve of?
Sex life? Good, Bad, non-existent?
Did he feel loved, appreciated, welcomed in his own home by his wife?
So many questions that require answers, we need more info. He didn't dump you for his mother, unless you're trying to tell us they have some sort of sick, twisted, perverted sexual relationship and if that's really the case, drop him and move on.
