When I say I want him to 'get it' ... what I'm really hoping for is for him to not fight me on leaving the house. I don't want this to be a contentious, angry experience ... I hope he feels relief and freedom ... ultimately, what he feels is his business and his problem, I can't control it.
Those are your wants and hopes right now, and they are FOR him to do what YOU want....Right ?
That is a razor sharp line to walk without it actually becoming controlling though.....don'tcha think ?
Originally Posted By: PEImom_of_3
Can you expand on this for me ....
There is a line that we all walk, and we can falter to either side at any time.
There have been grumblings on being "done" and yet focus on the MLCer has lead to a lack of consolidation between the head and the heart.
Like there has to be a label put on it to justify the LBS's actions for taking that step forward.
Moving forward doesn't mean moving on by any means....the ONLY thing they share is the word "moving" as a precursor to the action.
Moving forward means to kinda write off the situation...
Moving on kinda means to write off the person...
There is a difference with that...
Moving forward is essential...
While Moving on is more of a state of mind rather than an action...
Be sure of your footing to where YOU want to stand in all of this...
And I know your head say this....but your heart says something way different,at least what I read does....
