Yep Lotus I really want to chew him out but wasn't sure how beneficial that would be. However he is a "Lion" on those personality tests, he has no respect for "Golden Retrievers" so backing down and not responding, in his world, means I have submitted to him. So feels like I am juvenile to respond but passive if I don't.
I know him well enough I know what he meant when he said, "Two words. Bug spray."
He did NOT mean he needed bug spray. Then the text would have been, "Bug spray?" or "Can you drop off bug spray"
What he meant was, "The kids have lots of bug bites from being with you on the fourth and they are whining about them which annoys me so now I am blaming you for their bug bites causing me discomfort."
