The year of not my problem

[Thinker]

. I realized that the legal aspects are such a small part of this and it doesn't really mean much to me.

Hi AJ,

It is important to get the legal aspects done right and to get the agreement documented in a manner and level of detail that is specific and enforceable.

With your stbx's level of entitlement and habit of changing agreements to suit her needs, a detailed, specific and firm agreement is the only way you will be able to detach and move on with rebuilding your life.