Go get your own life. Start exercising, buy new clothes, look hot, feel good, make new friends, work on self-worth.
doing this already. i exercise to keep myself from spiralling into depression. i bought a few new clothing items. i think i look good - i definitely don't need to lose weight. i have made new friends and reconnected with old ones i have not spoken to in a while. i'm slowly working on me. my self-worth was on the floor so i need to work on that.
i can handle it on my own. i haven't relied on anybody for much. my friends have been very supportive.
i live life the way it was before he entered my life. i had a list of things i wanted to do and i'm getting through that list.
my h doesn't text me, call me, or tried to make any contact with me. i tried once only because his mail got redirected to me. but even when i tried contacting him about it, he ignored my call. ever since then, i haven't contacted him at all.
i think it's really bizarre how some folks here still have physical contact with their WAS. as soon as the d-bomb was dropped, no more hugs, nothing. if you don't want me, you don't get any more. setting boundaries. you want out, then no more contact. go to your mother. i'm sure if you need a bj, your mother would be happy to give you one.
