Ken, you need to STOP listening to your wife's BS...
She's NOT ready for divorce and you need to protect her and those kids from this guy...
We have TOLD you to STOP getting sucked into that garbage.. WALK AWAY we say over and over...
Dude, if they don't want a SCENE them you MAKE ONE... do NOT give them what THEY WANT... THAT is how you BEAT this thing is to LOOK for the weakness and HIT IT AS HARD AS YOU CAN
Don't give up yet man... you need to STOP listening to what your wife says ... SH'es TRYING to SCARE you OFF...
DO NOT GIVE UP man... SHe's TALKING DETERMINED but she is NOT EDUCATED on this... YOU ARE... Divorce is going to RUIN these kids and OM is going to USE your wife and THROW her AWAY .. just like he is doing with HIS WIFE... LOOK at how he's treating HIS WIFE... THAT's how HE will TREAT YOURS... you WANT THAT?
If you WANT im to use your wife and toss her away then sure... Go ahead and ruin those kids and let him ruin your family dude... If he's HIDING you EXPOSE it...
Talk to the lab owner... we gave you advice... you IGNORED it and went to talk to your WIFE INSTEAD
I didn't expect your wife to respond to what you said... She might have baited you into an argument but guess what... she WAITED and hit you LATER and you FELL for it...