Welcome to the MLC board. Go ahead and post your background info and ask all the questions that come to mind. As PEI mentioned, we're not pros, but we'll do the best we can with what you give us.
Let us know what your ages are, how long you've been married, children and what led you to believe your H is going through a MLC.
It's a great group of folks who are here, and if you're going through this there's no better place to be.