I should add that my WAH, when I mentioned a week ago that I'd had contact with the interested guy, immediately gave me a stern warning to "be very careful" of this person, that even though he didn't know him personally that things I'd said about the guy in the past (first impression things that have turned out to be very UNcharacteristic of him) made my WAH think that this guy was no good for me and would take advantage of my vulnerability. Then my H said "of course it's not right for me to judge you or be involved."
Yeah...right!
I can see that conversation now:
"He's a crazy raving lunatic," said Mr. Antonia, clearly agitated. "But if you want to date him, go ahead. I'll just be following you on every date you ever go on so that if he does one dumb thing I can jump out and holler, 'I told you so!'"