NO, I am suggesting that you lay down your boundaries with him and not via text. With your C's direction I would let him know that you saw the pics on his camera as you were looking through the birthday photos. I would let him know that it is your concearn because your kids could inadvertently access it.

If his lap top is indeed a work computer, he very well could lose his job over it. The man is playing with fire and he has several screws loose. If he looses his job, it will affect you and the kids. He needs to grow up, like yesterday!

kat

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