I'm not sure why the OM was hiding. I think he and W just wanted to avoid a scene. He is significantly bigger than me, so he wouldn't be afraid of me physically.
Strangely, my wife brought me home a nice meal today. She has been trying to be nice lately.
Originally Posted By: Allen A
Ken go right to your wife today and say this :
Don't think I'm an idiot, I know who's truck that was and I know what coward was in the bathroom... Very brave man he is... Hiding in the bathroom from children... This is your idea of a romantic fantasy?
I went to W and said these words. She didn't respond.
Later I got sucked into R talk. She is very intent on getting a divorce and plans to get me the paperwork sometime this week. She goes on and on about how done we are and how the damage has been done. She said it wouldn't even matter if I became the perfect husband. I guess her memories of bad moments is the problem.
I cannot express how much I have appreciated all the help I have received on here. Allen, you are AWESOME and I admire your dedication to helping people in situations like mine. After the talk I had with W last night, I feel more hopeless about our sitch than ever. She is very DETERMINED to end our marriage. Well at least no one can say I didn't try.
I still plan to get the stalking order on the OM just because I can't stand the thought of him being around my beautiful daughters. But other than that, I really feel like throwing in the towel. I think she is bringing me the divorce papers this week.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.