What happens if you 'set them free' but they won't go away???
My exH said again the other day when he returned the kids how "DONE" he was. OK fine.
But then he is texting me every single day. Offering me his leftover chinese food in his fridge bc he's gone on a business trip and it will go bad? Really? Telling me he has an ear infection...ummm did I ask?
I tend to ignore and then he goes mean and underhanded, hits me where it hurts. Little passive aggressive texts when he has the kids demeaning my parenting skills.
Example, "Two words. Mosquito spray."
Guess they were whining about bug bites and he couldn't handle it. (And of course I had used bug spray.)