Hello everyone. I'm new here, actually new to forums in general. I don't know all the abbreviations yet, so please bear with me. I have been hanging around reading stuff for the past several weeks and finally feel ready to post my sitch and ask questions/advice, but am not sure where to start---here or the newcomers section. I think my H is going thru a midlife crisis and has had an affair with a co-worker. My life is a mess right now, better than it was 8 months ago, but still a mess. Can anyone help?