Maybe that would be a good question to ask your C because really he could lose his job which would of course affect you as well. I know of lots of people that have been fired for accessing inappropriate sites on work computers. Don't know if you would want to use it like a threat though.
You really have to stop playing a long. Throw the rope away and don't pick it up. Slowly all of his "issues" will stop bothering you.
hugs, kat
How is this about dropping the rope? I know I have been attached to him and refusing to let go for a long time now. But after seeing those pictures I have zero desire whatsoever to reconcile with him. Now I just want him to stop bullying me. Are you suggesting I just take the advice I would give my kids of just ignoring the bully?
That's fine with his pitiful digs and accusations about how I parent the kids. But when he decides to let his dad keep the kids all morning (it is 9:43) and not tell me until I call and ask, that is more than just some annoying comment that I can blow off.