I should add that my WAH, when I mentioned a week ago that I'd had contact with the interested guy, immediately gave me a stern warning to "be very careful" of this person, that even though he didn't know him personally that things I'd said about the guy in the past (first impression things that have turned out to be very UNcharacteristic of him) made my WAH think that this guy was no good for me and would take advantage of my vulnerability. Then my H said "of course it's not right for me to judge you or be involved."
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying