So Dan had the kids overnight. When he left I said to bring the kids here in the morning when he went to work (as opposed to taking them to childcare). He said ok.
Well I got up at 7 and puttered around waiting for them. He has claimed he is supposed to be at work by 7:30 but usually he doesn't drop them off until 7:15-7:30 and is all frazzled bc he is running late.
Well, 8:00 comes and no kids. Then 8:15. I texted at 8:20 asking where kids were. (I know he got a comp day for July 4 and thought maybe he was using it?)
He did not reply so I called at 8:30 and got his voicemail.
He texted at 8:40 that his dad was watching the kids and would bring them over when they woke up, they were exhausted...
Am I wrong in thinking he needed to TELL me this??? Seriously if he said he'd bring them before work and then he wasn't going to, he should have told me.
He has not done anything bad regarding the kids and yet I have to admit I was concerned for their safety. He has previously told me how he hates his life, is so stressed, depressed, etc. And I know he is still living his 'double life' bc of the camera pics, so that must eat him up that he has to hide that part from friends and family. I really thought for a few minutes that maybe he took them somewhere or hurt himself and maybe them. Am I out of line for worrying about that??
