And here I am .... H's MLC ....

[ericmsant2]

Pei –
I just caught up on your thread….and the first thing that pops out at me is WOW I missed the fun this Friday.

Before I respond to your latest updated I wanted to respond to Friday’s post.

I'm guessin' he's nothing like Eric - never seen him in a tutu, that's for sure!

I recently washed all of my tutu’s and they shrunk so I need to pick up a few new ones. Once I do this I will post the pics on the alt. LMAO!

Now I know why some choose an arrow

I am not touching this one….Oh….F it….”Arrow”…comm’on girl…you need to go triangle…like Bermuda triangle…where planes get pulled in. Okay…I better stop.

Jeep top or his top??? Sounds a little risque if you ask me!

FTR - It was the jeep top down – I was however, wearing a very tight pink shirt with the nipple section cut out. You know…it part of the journey of finding my sensitive side. Now picture that. BTW…does the beaver shirt come with nip cut outs?

Sorry…to hijack Pei…but hey… Grit…Yo….GRIT…

You either heart beaver or you don't.

Contrary to popular belief on these boards…I do heart beaver! ROLFLMAO!!!

It's been so long for me there would have to be those little blue lights on there
and
I'd have to get radio'd in by the control tower.
I might be coming in a little hot too...

Dude I can relate…so here is some advice…navigate slowly…listen to the control tower (assuming they can provide direction) and then pull back HARD and slow…you should gain elevation and then land softly..This will help with the coming in a little too hot. Just sayin….

Hey isn't there one called the poodle cut?

Yes…there is one. And since you guys know that I have a golden doodle…I can tell you the poodle cut tends to be a little “bushy” – not sure you want that.

Okay PEI…back to your post.

fear and insecurity were the ties that bound for a long time

Squashing the fear and killing the insecurity is easier said then done. Just sayin….Qften they appear to be gone but can rear there ugly head again if not completely dealt with. (and I real wonder if they ever are completely gone).

In terms of the things you want to say to H…DON’t. He is not ready and may never be ready. LIVE THEM! LIVE THEM TO THE FULLEST! Actions will speak louder than words….Telling him IMO is expecting a response, it is “hoping” he will see it and snap out of it. He will take it as controling and manipulative, which you do not want. Will he snap out of this...He may, he may not. He will only do this when he wants to – not when you want it.

What GRIT and Missher posted is spot on.

Sweetie...these steps you are taking..they are about you and your journey and you know that. IMO - you are probably struggling with....how will you REALLY know that you are living it? Well at some point..none of what I say, Grit says, Missher says will matter. You will just know. Don’t rush it…just live it slowly…day by day…

God Bless
Eric