How do I detach without tgiving the impression that I do not love her anymore? It just seems to me that if I stop givig her attention that she will think I am done.
"lovingly detach"
I did things sporadically that were targeted to make her feel loved. You must do these things with no expectations. The Greeks LLs are WOA and AOS so I looked for ways to scratch those itches. Really listening, making eye contact and holding it, agreeing with her feelings and letting her be her. If I wanted something I made it a goal for her to do it (180). I wanted a hug so I made it a goal for her to give me one (not pursuing). So I had to know what would attract her. Be catnip.
ex. "I know you like this band and I heard they just released a new CD so I picked it up for you."
Look for things that show a emotional connection without it being discussed. Because you "know" her. Wear a cologne you know she likes, smell triggers powerful emotions. Buy a new shirt in a color she likes on you that you like. Be sensual - involve the senses. Don't talk about it and don't expect anything from it - confidence (know that you are attractive to her.) Don't tell the Greek but I still use these DB mind tricks - SSSHHHHH.
