Well knowing this it seems that the best thing to do is to GAL and date, if there is sliver of love left in that WAS heart ( which it usually is ), they will get insanely jealous and come to claim the man that they thought would remain on the spot that they put them on.
Is this a good idea? I am worried that if I did this that it would give her the ammunition she needs to blame me for the D. It seems to me that she has been trynig to get me to do somethnig, anythnig so that she can blame me becasue she does not have a good reson for wanting to be out of the marriage. Any time we talked about it, the answer I got was " I do not know why, I just do not want to be married anymore." Can sombody explain this. I do not have a problem dating as long as it does not affect a D proceedings. I have been without any type of affection for months to years, it would be nice to have someone aprpeciate me for a change. Would do wonders for my self esteem that she has torn down for years.
