Wow, P. Really heavy stuff. He didn't ask about the baby at all during the two weeks. I think he doesn't realize how much he's missing out. When he sees her next, I expect him to say "wow, she grew so much" and get a glimmer of the fact that he missed out.

Yeah, that's true about controlling things and the baby updates.

So one more visit to wrap things up, huh? I'm interested to hear what happens. And then you have to stand his hanging around for a while before he returns to Europe? With his mom and brother being at your place you may need to set up some boundaries.

I'm sorry that it's all happening.


me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.