I am picturing you and a dozen other women picketing the university... lol
Yeah, like a bunch of Suffragettes from 100 years ago, but instead of demanding the right to vote, demanding fidelity from our husbands! Lol!
Originally Posted By: Allen A
I do reemmber you mentioning one grad student who left the uni because of your H and OW... What a nightmare to have to go through as a student...
Such a bright, sweet girl. She's from China, went home to visit her parents for a month, and came back with a new husband. He was cute and they seemed very much in love. But within a year, he was cheating on her with his English teacher - a friend of hers - and she kicked him out. He lost his visa and had to go back to China.
When she saw what was going on between WH and OW, she had ZERO tolerance. But since you don't reprimand your elders or authority figures in Chinese culture, she just got out as quick as she could.
WH mentioned he and DD 12 saw her at the mall a couple of weeks ago but she was distant and not at all happy to see him. Gee, wonder why?
Originally Posted By: Allen A
The uni may support it at the top, and I can understand why.. It's a free perk they can offer thier PhD's ...
I'd rather have free parking!
Originally Posted By: Allen A
I don't expect the uni administration to crack down... But I do think a sizable enough group setting a new cultural standard on campus would help... The social work department must have some interest in this subject... Granted, maybe the admins of that department all cheat too... That would be irony...
The moral compass is broken here. The only ones scandalized were the police, and only the first time I spoke with them. They were much more closed-mouth the second time we spoke...
