I decided that, morally, I was only comfortable with this after my wife and I had agreed to separate, and only if I told her of my intention to date other people.e
It worked very, VERY well. Powerful stuff (sadly).
Puppy
What was powerful - telling her you were going to date, or actually dating?
Both. She squirmed when I finally agreed to what had been HER idea all along -- to date other people -- and then the first night I actually went out and had a drink with someone, she FLIPPED OUT!!! Called me crying, all hysterical, wanting to talk to me, etc., etc.