I am so sorry again and there isn't much to say. I completely understand where you are. At least your H didn't say, but we are "just friends" and we should all hang out. That is what happened with OW1 and the OW now. Show me how messed up my H is and how he will never change.

They don't understand what they have done is wrong. They have no moral compass. When you are ready, the point is to just move forward. Be kind to H when it comes to S, but otherwise just leave him alone. No texts at all.

Now take time for yourself and at some point you will find someone who will treat you with respect and that will be a pleasant relief.

Stay strong and stay busy because that is what will help you get through this.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89