Thanks 4luv. I am really sorry your H has been such a jerk also (sorry, I hope that doesn't offend you). How is it going for you and your son at your parents place? I am also with mine for that extra love and support & they get such a kick out of a baby being around also.
Re visitation. Same rules apply here. I am not afraid. He won't pressure me. Knows he can't.
Child support. We are reaching our own agreement on this.
I will stop controlling things. I am ready for that. Matter of re-programming myself.
In the next day or so I expect to hear from WH about visiting the baby. Normally I ask one of my parents to facilitate, but I'm tiring of that. I would hope to be strong enough to facilitate it myself but am afraid of being fragile in the face of him just having arrived from trip where he has been canoodling with OW (they could have broken up for all I know, but I doubt it & I don't want to know/care either way).
Can I handle it? Can I handle it? This is what I keep asking myself. ...
'Brave' would be I facilitate the visitation.
'Easy breezy' would be I try to find solution with a third party. ( I would get HIM to find a solution but as the Mother I feel I need to call the shots)!
