Originally Posted By: newmama
4)when I said I was worried about not being able to love stbxh again, he said the feeling of love is the "romantic love" that goes away in 3-4 years. He said that after that, love is am action, a commitment, an intuitive act, a choice, a comforting feeling...so we can love if we want to. (take THAT, WASs!)


I didn't realise it was 3-4 years...I was thinking more like 2. Anyway, doesn't matter. I like your therapist too!

Happy birthday to your little one. 1st birthday. Wow!!! Congrats to you for bringing him into the world and taking such good care of him. HUGS!


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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