I would recommend the book. It is actually very hard for me to read, because it paints a pretty brutal picture of what it is like to live with a person with undiagnosed ADD. It was written by a woman that runs an online support group for spouses of ADD partners.
This weekend was a rough one. It seems that everything I thought was getting better he says isn't. I am still pushing his buttons. I still drive him crazy. I start on my meds today. I didn't even fill the script yet, but it is first on my list. I have no idea if it will help, but I know I have to try.
This weekend was actually bad enough that I came so close to just giving up. Two years + after the first bomb and he still says the same things. I can't even focus on the sitch, instead I have to focus on the ADD and what I need to do.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.