Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[The Wifey]

My H has ED and will not go to the doctor. He feels no desire. It isn't a mental block, but a physical thing. It is incredibly frustrating and hard to hear that the man that used to go crazy for me feels nothing. He does not even have morning erections. I understand it is hard for a man to seak treatment, but struggle to understand why he's done nothing.

I asked him if he preferred if I go have an affair. He responded that he wants me to do what makes me happy. SOB, what would make me happy is for him to go to the doctor, or both of us go to the doctor, and seak treatment. I even told him that if he sought treatment and it was unsuccessful that it didn't make him less than a man.

No dice. He can't go there physically or emotionally. In the meantime I sit here and wonder why what I thought we had was only my perception, or perhaps a story he's told himself that isn't true. I don't know which.

All I know is that if I had a sexual problem I would be at the doctor asking him to treat me. It hurts that it isn't important to him. It doesn't do a lot for my self confidence and makes me feel very vulnerable.