I sort of cant quite believe the way he speaks to you, that he is so disrepectful to send 2 texts with those 2 words in. It was mean, I guess he's really passive aggressive.
I really really think you should ask him/tell him to stop textng you this random sh*t. It just churns you up. We've often said here, that texting is not a good way to communicate as co-parents. You are divorced. There are going to be issues if you shunt kids from one parent to the other (like no nebuliser at his, or no bug spray with them..) but you cant be responsible when its his time with them. So he goes and buys bug spray. So what?
Its kind of bullying the way he is with you. Controlling. Can you find a way to stand up to him and tell him to stop doing this? Like the comments about Sydney the other day. Or agree a set time to discuss issues like this, say once a month or something ?? One to discuss with the IC maybe. I dont know, but he is being really childish if he doesnt realise that there will be issues and inconveniences and inconsistences now you arent a M couple. He needs to chillax and take it a bit more on the chin, or grow up hey.
Did you reply to his texts? I hope not sweets, Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
