SS- been in your sitch. Was getting great support and was really upset when H found and read every word of my thread. I needed to stop posting ASAP. Who knows why they look for us here- I don't wonder anymore, but it's irritating to not be able to speak freely. If I were you, I'd drop out of sight for awhile- maybe go to the alt (ask someone about that) and after awhile, come back, but be very careful- don't just change your user name and keep posting- you need to set up a whole new account and not be very specific about details- or change them- if you want to post freely here.

I am not sure I agree with others that this can become a forum for you to converse freely- from the little I've read, your H may not be able to do that even if you wanted to- it just becomes a public forum to one-up the other with better, cleverer-sounding, sneakier attacks- from BOTH of you. Poison. Will only make things worse, IMO.

And Btw, you don't need to give ANY explanation of why you post here. It's YOUR business- keep it that way by doing the above so you can write what you need to w/out worrying he'll read it.

-A

Last edited by alice444; 07/06/10 05:29 AM.
When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.