Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[4luv]

I just caught up on i don't think sending pics is a good idea. i know you are trying to do the 'right' thing but you have to let a man step up and be a man. Do not try and control the situation. If he is going to be a father then let his actions show them. There is no need to coerce him into fatherhood by sending pics (that he did not ask for). now if he asks for pics then by all means send them...if he asks about the baby then update him on the baby. But if he doesn't ask don't send anything. Sending something when a person doesn't ask is a form of control...controlling or expecting a response from them. Let him show you what type of father he will be.