Originally Posted By: lala09

Also pondering how to keep hope alive without expectations? Not having expectations is HARD!!


lala,
I am headed off to bed but I wanted to leave you with something for the evening.

You have hope for your marriage because "love always hopes" 1 corinthians 13:1-13

You have expectations of your husbands actions. (need to work on this one)

Two different things. Right?

Stop expecting him to act a certain way or say a certain thing. And yes it is hard, lets try to pull some of those wires out of your head and re-wire.

I really do understand that it is hard......I had a little problem with expectations yesterday.

God Bless

Formerly "missherlove"

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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison