I have one other question. What does anyone think about going out for a casual lunch or something with a member of the opposite sex while one has "gone dark"? I may have an opportunity to take someone up on this who seems interested, who is also single, and my intention is not "revenge"; it's that I want to have a good time and feel good about myself. Is this dangerous? Do you avoid all contact with a person of the opposite sex in a one-on-one situation while you're avoiding contact with the WAS?
I decided that, morally, I was only comfortable with this after my wife and I had agreed to separate, and only if I told her of my intention to date other people.e
It worked very, VERY well. Powerful stuff (sadly).
