MLC, H and me

[newmama]

Still not sure that packing his things is a good idea but, if I am going to be moving at some point, it would be easier to have his stuff done!

Do you mean in case it sends the wrong message to your H or that he needs to pack his own stuff?

Here's my opinion: if you are comfortable being in limbo, then that is OK!

If you are wanting to rock the boat a little (and remember, it may not even move for the WASs)then pack up the stuff and not say anything about it. It is a message. An action.

BUT

If you are wanting to pack the stuff for practicality reasons, here is a genius suggestion (from my IC), let him know. "I am packing up your stuff so I have more room in the house" or "I packed your stuff so I can get it out of the way before I move."
(moving doesn't mean you don't want to R! remember that!)

And I won't dare tell you what I think you should do because I am learning eventually we all know what we want and it is best to do it when we are ready.