WHY DO WE DO IT?

[navajo]

Glad I finally got a chuckle!

Quick question for you.

I am almost certain that she is still in the EA (will confront her later this week).

When exposing her, should I tell the kids? I mean, she needs to fully understand the implications of the hirt she is causing, but, I don't know if turning her kids further against her is something I should do.

They are both already very cold to her and resentful since she is the one who moved out, and she IS their Mother, but I think they have a right to know why we are going through this and to continue to be completely honest with them (S13/D18).

I am really torn with this one!