BTW, it's looking like this thread is just "our little club".
throw a couple Monty Python references in and everyone flees.
Over thinking noted. The gravity of the situation tends to create analysis. It was also mentioned in 'Nice Guys'. We analize rather than just feel. I'm trying but it's a 47 year old habit.
Well, don't get me wrong, I do think the BIG stuff requires pretty carefully worded boundaries, a la Coach's thread. Complete with consequences. But common rudeness should just be called out immediately for what it is, and if you do it, you'd be surprised at how people will respond (most will knock it off immediately. My wife did. I told her once "I hope that's not your boyfriend you're texting. That would be really rude and disrespectful." She denied it was, but she never did it again).