Originally Posted By: seeking answers

As I have posted before things are not so good between my H and ow...

...Cousin doesn't think this is going to last long.


Who cares?

I know you do sweetie, but really, honestly, we all know what someone's opinion is worth.

Your focus is on the wrong thing.

Originally Posted By: SeekingAnswers

I don't think H is anywhere near done with MLC yet.


This is the answer to your question.

H is coming around and doing things around the house.

Be the best SA you can be, SHOW him.

He is NOT ready for anything more than that.

Down the road, the pride thing, may be a factor. Hopefully it won't be a factor for you, but it may be a factor for him.

IF you push this right now, the possibility exists that you could push him right back into her arms.

Because you are opening the door when he hasn't even closed that one yet.

Let this burn itself out on it's own if it is going to.

Just my 2 cents.

Oh and my PH for the week, my S came home from his week away yesterday. Driving me nuts already (teenagers) but it is all good. smile


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox