Originally Posted By: Irish
he doesn't understand anything right now. I hurt for them and I hurt for me - but this is his issue - not mine - right??


Is he MLC? No he doesn't understand anything outside of himself. He can't deal with the guilt or pain of anyone else.

It is HIS issue...

NOT yours.

Try as much as you can to separate the actions from the man you know because he is not that man right now...

You need to focus on your detachment.

Think of some goals for yourself to focus on.

Baby step goals ok?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am