Heartbroken and needing help!

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Ok, so D2 left to go back to school - tears flowed.
We had a great weekend though - she's one who is completely overwhelmed by the situation-hurt and angry. She and D1, S and I spend the day at pool - great day.
I get an email from H asking me if it's ok if he texts the girls to see what they are doing. I don't respond - let the girls know he texted and have them contact him.
An hour later H texts the girls and says" has something happened or been said today that has you upset? You have both seemed a little upset when I spoke with you"
D2 gets so angry about this and D1 tells her that she will text him back on behalf of both of them.
D2 sends H text that basically says - this is extremely hard on all of us and it becomes more real everyday. No one "said" anything to us.
H says - sorry for the pain, but I love you and it will be ok.

Ds are like - he doesn't understand anything right now. I hurt for them and I hurt for me - but this is his issue - not mine - right??