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i just want to respond to this thread....I WISH I WOULD HAVE LISTENED TO THIS ADVICE EARLIER. I tried the be the better option advice, don't rock the boat...NONE of which worked. I registered on this board in Oct and it wasn't until I MOVED OUT AND AWAY that my husband started to turn around. It took ONE AND A HALF MONTHS from the time I moved out until he OFFICIALLY came back 100%. not even a week after i moved out he started talking about us being together, asking me if i would move back, etc. I ignored for the most parts all those attempts until I knew for sure that the OW was out of the picture.


wink I hope all of you that have NOT yet let go read the above quote again and again..... THAT is how FAST it can work when you let go. NOTICE that SHE moved out. This again is another thing that is not understood on this site. When there is an affair going on it is better for ONE of you to move than for you to live together and allow them to cake eat. Either they move or you move,but do NOT allow them to continue to cake eat while living in the same house with you. That is unacceptable behavior that needs to be nipped in the bud. "You can be with or see anybody you want. However, you can't also have ME." End of story


This is yet another exampe of letting go and how it works much better and much faster. It only took a couple of weeks once she let go. She probably thought that letting go was the end of the relationship, when in fact it was the beginning of reconciliation...


Last edited by gucci loafer; 07/06/10 01:17 AM.