What luvless means is that you are allowing your H to control your every emotion and response to your sitch. He KNOWS that this is hurting you; BUT he doesn't see the STRONG women who would NEVER accept his treatment of her.

You must change you because WE cannot change a person. Take care and charge of yourself because if your marriage does have a chance to survive, it can only come through changes in both of you.

Focus on you and your children and be strong. He needs to SEE that YOU are worthy.

QUOTE TO THINK ABOUT:
"People cannot go wrong, if you don't let them. They cannot go right, unless you let them."

Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison