Don't think I'm an idiot, I know who's truck that was and I know what coward was in the bathroom... Very brave man he is... Hiding in the bathroom from children... This is your idea of a romantic fantasy?
And LAUGH AT HER... Then walk away still laughing...
DO IT.. It will help nail that fantasy again... And give you more credit in teh process showing her you aren't an idiot.. she might think right now she's outsmarted you
Go make it clear you are a bright guy and that OM is a coward... THe above should be fine
The only thing I can think of is he had his pants at his ankles or something like that... Which is unlikley... I just can't come up with a feasible explanation...
I think he had a work in progress, if you KWIM. I doubt he was hidding from Ken, but he heard the door and didn't know who was coming in.
I did not realize the business was owned by a church member. If the church was informed of the misconduct of WAW & OM, then that is even more baffling why she has not been released of her job.
I agree with Allen, Ken. I think you should have a one on one with her boss and inform him of the many times OM has imposed on her during working hours. I'm trying to remember, but seems like she did get concerned when she thought you would tell boss or go to workplace.....there was something in past posts that I recall her worried about her job. I think it is a key point to hit.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
The other reason he might have been hiding is that, let's face it: It's one thing to hide among a crowd of people, where Ken is not likely to make a scene, like at church. It's a different story to actually have to deal with someone one on one!
OK, the first one aobut him not knowing who was coming in... That's fine, but as soon as he heard it was Ken he would normally have come out... He just hid in there until you left right Ken?
I dunno... I guess maybe he is afraid of you Ken...
Ken, how heavy is this guy? Are you like within ass-kicking range of this guy? Would he be physically afraid of you?
I don't know that he was hiding from Ken in the respect y'all are suggesting. I think it's more likely Ken's wife was trying to avoid getting busted and said, "Get in there so my husband doesn't see you." Obviously she was dissembling when asked whose truck it was. We know he doesn't mind making a scene, so I'm guessing it was her trying to avoid one.
I'm not sure why the OM was hiding. I think he and W just wanted to avoid a scene. He is significantly bigger than me, so he wouldn't be afraid of me physically.
Strangely, my wife brought me home a nice meal today. She has been trying to be nice lately.
Originally Posted By: Allen A
Ken go right to your wife today and say this :
Don't think I'm an idiot, I know who's truck that was and I know what coward was in the bathroom... Very brave man he is... Hiding in the bathroom from children... This is your idea of a romantic fantasy?
I went to W and said these words. She didn't respond.
Later I got sucked into R talk. She is very intent on getting a divorce and plans to get me the paperwork sometime this week. She goes on and on about how done we are and how the damage has been done. She said it wouldn't even matter if I became the perfect husband. I guess her memories of bad moments is the problem.
I cannot express how much I have appreciated all the help I have received on here. Allen, you are AWESOME and I admire your dedication to helping people in situations like mine. After the talk I had with W last night, I feel more hopeless about our sitch than ever. She is very DETERMINED to end our marriage. Well at least no one can say I didn't try.
I still plan to get the stalking order on the OM just because I can't stand the thought of him being around my beautiful daughters. But other than that, I really feel like throwing in the towel. I think she is bringing me the divorce papers this week.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
Ken, you need to STOP listening to your wife's BS...
She's NOT ready for divorce and you need to protect her and those kids from this guy...
We have TOLD you to STOP getting sucked into that garbage.. WALK AWAY we say over and over...
Dude, if they don't want a SCENE them you MAKE ONE... do NOT give them what THEY WANT... THAT is how you BEAT this thing is to LOOK for the weakness and HIT IT AS HARD AS YOU CAN
Don't give up yet man... you need to STOP listening to what your wife says ... SH'es TRYING to SCARE you OFF...
DO NOT GIVE UP man... SHe's TALKING DETERMINED but she is NOT EDUCATED on this... YOU ARE... Divorce is going to RUIN these kids and OM is going to USE your wife and THROW her AWAY .. just like he is doing with HIS WIFE... LOOK at how he's treating HIS WIFE... THAT's how HE will TREAT YOURS... you WANT THAT?
If you WANT im to use your wife and toss her away then sure... Go ahead and ruin those kids and let him ruin your family dude... If he's HIDING you EXPOSE it...
Talk to the lab owner... we gave you advice... you IGNORED it and went to talk to your WIFE INSTEAD
I didn't expect your wife to respond to what you said... She might have baited you into an argument but guess what... she WAITED and hit you LATER and you FELL for it...
