I didn't want to react right away to your message.
I'm processing it and thinking about it.
the only thing I would say right now is that I do not want full custody of my boys. Ideally I want to be living in the same place as them. Most ideally for them and the family is for me to stay here in this job. It will allow me to get out from under the hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt that "we" accrued.
I hear what you and Mach are saying. what you are saying is to try to reach some sort of agreement. I have asked her to go to mediation. she doesn't want to.
