I know I very well could be jumping the gun, but is there anything I could say that wouldn't be considered pursuing that would let him know that I am open to him returning at some point, or should I just let it go and let the chips fall where they may.
Absolutely.
Not
SA,
Just remember that this is his parade right now, and if he wants to ride the Harley, or row a liferaft down main street, it is what he has to do.
It doesn't mean you have to approve, or even like it.
Honestly ? It shows me that you are focusing on him again instead of walking your own path.
Don't let the monsters in your head out to play ....
