the one thing husband says is that he noticed my changes but he wishes that I would have left him sooner...lol.
and this from your thread:
Originally Posted By: 4luv
Husband says he wished I wouldn't taken all of that crap from him. He says that he feels he needed help. . . . He wishes that I would not have taken crap for so long. When I said you should appreciate the fact that I took your crap in order to save our marriage, my husband replied "why should I appreciate you taking crap? No one should take crap."
It may be that the most loving thing you can do for yourself and for the crap-giver is to leave
