I agree with Mila 100%. Peeking out of the tunnel, you don't want to scare him back. Just be friendly and agreeable, non controlling.
Which brings up another question. How come its wrong or us, the BS to pursue, but that seems to be the norm when they break up with he OW/OM?
Oh, and SA, Thumbs up!
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
